Step-By-Step
You want to Elope? Let us help guide you through this incredibly fun, unique and exciting experience!
Elopement Guide
1. Introduction to Elopements
2. How To Choose Your Perfect Elopement Location
3. Choosing the Right Date
4. Creating a Custom Elopement Timeline
5. Officiants & Marriage Legalities
6. Selecting Elopement Vendors
7. Elopement Attire
8. Packing Checklist
9. Personalizing Your Ceremony
10. Documenting the Day
11. Celebration Ideas
12. Post- Elopement Checklist
13. FAQ's
Your How-To Checklist
1. Deciding on an Elopement
Elopements are an intimate, intentional way to get married, focusing on your love story without the stress and expectations of a traditional wedding. Whether it's just the two of you or a small group of loved ones, an elopement allows you to craft a wedding experience that truly reflects who you are as a couple. The benefits? Less stress, more adventure, and a day that feels completely yours.
3. Choosing the Right Date
- Weather & Seasons: Research the best season for your dream location: wildflower blooms, fall foliage, or snowy peaks all create different experiences.
- Crowds: Popular destinations can be busy. Consider a weekday elopement for more privacy.
- Flexibility: Having a backup plan or date helps in case of weather changes or unforeseen closures.
4. Creating a Custom Elopement Timeline
- Your elopement day should flow naturally while capturing every meaningful moment.
- Typical structure: Getting ready, first look (optional), ceremony, adventure session, celebration.
- Timelines by location: If hiking, plan for sunrise or sunset for the best lighting. If in an urban setting, consider quieter morning hours.
- Flexibility: Keep buffer time for spontaneous moments, unexpected weather, or travel delays.
5. Officiants & Marriage Legalities
- Officiant options: WE ARE ORDAINED! You can have us sign your documents and get you two married. Or you can have a family member or friend get ordained.
- Marriage license requirements (vary by state/county): Research in advance to ensure you have all documents ready.
- Making it official: Don’t forget to file your paperwork after the ceremony! We can do this for you if it is in Washington State.
6. Selecting Elopement Vendors
- Essential vendors: Photographer, videographer, florist, hairstylist, makeup artist, and day of planner.
- Elopement friendly vendors: Choose vendors comfortable with small scale events and outdoor locations.
- Remote vendors: If working with vendors from afar, plan video calls and travel arrangements early.
7. Elopement Attire
- Choosing the right outfit (Comfort meets style): Opt for flowy dresses, breathable fabrics and suits that allow movement.
- Outdoor friendly options: Layers for changing weather, durable shoes for hikes and wind friendly hairstyles.
8. Packing Checklist
- Essentials: Rings, vows, marriage license, ID, outfits, accessories.
- Adventure extras: Hiking boots, layers, headlamps, snacks, water, emergency kit.
- Photo-friendly items: Blanket, champagne, special keepsakes for detail shots.
9. Personalizing Your Ceremony
- Writing your own vows: Make your promises personal and meaningful.
- Adding special rituals: Handfasting, exchanging letters, cultural traditions, or unity ceremonies.
- Including loved ones: Have family write letters, record a video message, or join virtually.
10. Documenting the Day
- Photography & videography: Capture the raw, unscripted moments along with stunning portraits.
- Why candid moments matter: These tell the true story of your day through joy, tears and laughter.
- Maximizing your photos: Plan for golden hour lighting, scenic backdrops and time for creative shots.
11. Celebration Ideas
- After the ceremony: Have a picnic, book a private chef or toast champagne under the stars.
- Mini honeymoon: Stay at a cozy cabin, explore a national park or plan a once-in-a-lifetime trip.
12. Post-Elopement Checklist
- Thank you notes: Show appreciation to vendors, guests and loved ones who supported your journey.
- Sharing your story: Announce your elopement through photos, videos or a post-elopement party.
13. FAQ's
- Do we have to hike to elope? Nope! You can elope anywhere, from scenic overlooks to city rooftops.
- Can we bring guests? Absolutely, whether it’s just your parents or a handful of close friends.
- What if the weather is bad? Embrace it! Rain, snow, and fog can add to the magic. Always have a backup plan.
- How far in advance should we plan? Some couples plan over a year ahead, others do it in a few weeks. The flexibility is what makes eloping so special!
